Monday, October 13, 2014

update #1

so i've done a few things, maintenance as i like to call it for the things that need to be done on  fairly regular basis.

-i danced, somewhat drunkenly with a friend after we got home from work. she was feeling bummed; i have been feeling down lately, so what's the best way to get that out of your system? dance like a fool. but i'm definitely out of shape and couldn't dance for that long. hopefully things will improve if i do it semi-often.

-i stretched before going to bed. once. maybe that will become a nightly thing.....

-i hit up karaoke at the courtside with my old karaoke buddy who is moving away. it was kind of bittersweet because we've grown apart a bit, but it's nice when you can just fall back in to fun. i sang culture club's karma chameleon, pretty poorly, but whatever.

-got a couple of goals with one outing. my sister's wedding was 2 weekends ago (the start of this quest) and it was in gloucester. we went up early to catch lunch downtown, which is where we discovered cape ann's brewpub (new bar for the month). the food was decent for pub grub and we were able to try a sampler of all the beers they had on tap. walked a bit along the waterfront and then checked out hammond castle because that's where the wedding was. it would have been nice to do a beach walk, but it was kind of cold out so we didn't (that and we were kind of pressed for time).

-i also realized it's been a while since i've been to a starbucks, and that i have 4 good local cafes that i regularly pass in my travels, so i should clearly be able to avoid coffee from a chain. until the boat engineer and i were talking and he brought up the fact that sometimes a starbucks is the only place still open when we are traveling. so i decided that i'm adding a caveat to my no starbucks for a year thing, and that is it doesn't count if i'm traveling because sometimes there is no local, non chain option. and starbucks isn't the worst chain coffee place out there, so c'est la vie. but i'm really going to try not to go to one at all....

-donated to the breast cancer research foundation. so that's one down, two to go.

things i need to do before the week is over:

-dance some more
-laundry (the duvet and one load of clothes for sure)
-read like crazy, or at least regularly.
-buy christmas tickets home
-update work log

things to be on the radar:

-oil change
-yoga
-date night
-acupuncture
-wine tasting
-pedicure
-paper journal

postcrossing tracking

sent off my first of hopefully 33 postcards. ideally, i'd like to do one a month, but as long as i get 33 total by the end of the 1001 days, i'll be happy. so here's the (growing) list:

us-3027611 (10/9/14) received (10/15)
us-3067628 (11/3/14) received (11/21)
us-3196018 (1/23/15) received (2/13)
us-3196020 (1/23/15) received (1/28)
us-3217311 (2/4/15) received (2/17)
us-3260309 (3/2/15) received (3/17)
us-3325060 (4/8/15) received (4/25/15)
us-3428317 (6/9/15) received (6/21/15)
us-3428326 (6/9/15) received (6/20/15)
us-3486927 (7/14/15) received (8/1/15)
us-3529308 (8/6/15) received (9/3/15)
us-3602312 (9/16/15) received 

Wednesday, October 8, 2014

4th attempt, new blog!

local travel
 1  visit martha's vineyard or nantucket 0/1
 2  have a beach day once a month june, july, august 0/7
 3  go to a water park every summer 0/3
 4  day trips in NE quarterly 1/7 (gloucester 10/14)

serious travel
 5  go to the kentucky derby 0/1
 6  spring training yearly 1/3 (15, 16, 17)
 7  travel abroad 0/1
 8  visit VT(Nov) 1/3, ME (Jul) 1/2, CO(Dec) 1/3, AZ(Dec) 1/3, FL(Mar) 1/3, yearly; MD once 0/1
 9  attend a cocktail festival 1/1 Thirst Boston 2014
 10  visit autumn 0/1
 11  visit becca 0/1
 12  romantic getaway with boat engineer 0/1

things to do (in boston)
 13  st patricks day in southie 0/1
 14  cyclorama for world aids day 0/1
 15  see one movie nominated for best picture each year 0/3
 16  see shakespeare in the park yearly 1/2

things to buy
 17  buy every season of supernatural 0/9
 18  buy one unique piece of jewelry a year 1/3
 19  buy one investment piece a year 0/3

sporty/exercise
 20  learn to sail 0/1
 21  do yoga twice a month 0/66
 22  go snowboarding each winter 0/3
 23  run a 5k each year 0/3
 24  ride bike to work weekly may through september
 25  (belly) dance weekly 4/143
 26  take weekly flamenco classes for a season (3 months) 0/36
 27  be able to do the splits with either leg in front
 28  go ice skating each winter (dec/14) 1/3

organization/to do
 29  update the 101 list monthly 8/33
 30  write in paper journal monthly 0/33
 31  marzibox cleaned 2x week 52/286
 32  do laundry every other week 16/72
 33  perform regular maintenance on car
 34  maintain paperwork in an organized manner
 35  throw away/donate clothing/shoes yearly 0/3
 36  develop old film rolls
 37  create a contact list
 38  digitize cds/get music from computers
 39  update my ez pass
 40  subscribe to the magazines i want and refrain from buying them in the store
 41  update passport

fun:crafty
 42  redo an old piece of furniture
 43  go through wardrobe and create/photograph outfits
 44  frame all prints and hang them
 45  start and maintain an herb garden

fun:social
 46  host a tea party
 47  check out a  new bar/restaurant each month 13/33 (cape ann brew pub 10/14, argyle (denver) 12/14, barcelona 1/15, viale 2/15. brewers fork 3/15, ward 8 3/15, kirkland tap and trotter 6/15, loyal nine 7/15, puritan and co 7/15, sams 8/15, hojoko 8/15, baseball tavern 8/15, brick and mortar 8/15)
 48  go on a real date each month 9/33
 49  be a regular at one bar I love
 50  go to karaoke once a month 11/33 (10/10, 11/12, 12/3, 1/23/15, 1/30, 2/13, 3/6, 4/21, 5/14, 6/17, 8/10)
 51  have a really awesome nye?
 52  have afternoon tea at a fancy hotel or tea house
 53  get a real christmas tree and have a decorating party
 54  have a pumpkin beer tasting
 55  participate in postcrossing monthly 6/33 (10/14, 11/3, 1/23(2), 2/4, 3/1, 4/8, 6/9(2), 8/6, 9/16)

communication
 56  send birthday cards each month 0/30
 57  send christmas cards yearly 0/3 missed the first year :(
 58  visit james/andrea/matt 3x a year 0/9

health:well-being
 59  get wisdom teeth removed/dental work done
 60  lights out by 3am
 61  get acupuncture monthly 0/33
 62  eat at home at least 3 nights a week
 63  take marzipan to the vet yearly 1/3 (3/31/15)
 64  go to the doctor yearly 0/3
 65  go to the dentist yearly 0/3
 66  have and maintain health insurance 1/3 (i applied for 2015)
 67  return to therapy
 68  maintain weight below 130lbs
 69  become a member at the ymca
 70  be living in an apt that is comfortable and i love

pampering
 71  get a facial quarterly 0/11
 72  take a bath quarterly 0/11
 73  buy flowers seasonally 1/11 (2/28)
 74  get a bra fitting and get new bras
 75  get a manicure quarterly 3/11
 76  get a pedicure once a month 4/33
 77  get a massage quarterly 0/11
 78  go on an ashram retreat

education/betterment
 79  become fluent in french
 80  read a book monthly 12/33 (dare me, the girl you left behind, the interestings, my horizontal life, midnight in europe, the vacationers, the shadow of the wind, 2 am at the cat's pajamas, the paris winter, cupcakes and cashmere, throw out fifty things, adultery )
 81  go to a monthly wine tasting 4/33 (11/13, 12/11, 2/5, 7/1)
 82  join a csa
 83  go starbucks-less for a year (caveat, while not traveling) (started 10/5/14, still going as of 9/16/15)
 84  take a cheese class

financial/job stuffs
 85  have one school loan paid off
 86  take care of outstanding debts
 87  be back on track with loans payments
 88  have $10,000 in 401k
 89  have six months living expenses in cash
 90  have a job i really love
 91  maintain cc's in a way that they can be paid off within 6 months
 92  create a budget and stick to it
 93  maintain precise records on work hours and wages
 94  update resume yearly 1/3

good vibes/volunteering
 95  donate yearly to breast cancer research/prevention in october 1/3
 96  volunteer yearly 0/3
 97  donate my hair
 98  buy a coffee or pay a toll for stranger once a year 0/3
 99  vote yearly 1/3
100  consecutive seasons of mlu volunteering 0/2
101  attend a charity ball each year 0/3


beginning date: oct 5, 2014
ending date: july 2, 2017